I mean, I can literally count on one hand how many studies have been conducted regarding female-related health issues, anyway. But from what little info we do have, we know one v important thing: Only 18 percent of women can reach orgasm during penetrative sex alone. So, hello, all of you who fall into that other 82 percentage. But first, let me call out all of the reasons you may have thought you were not in the majority: For one, poor—no, terrible!!! And three, how the media portrays sex in general—like, name three Netflix shows off the top of your head that show a couple engaging in oral sex. You just may need to open yourself up to other ideas, possibilities, ways of living, you know, all of it.
Of course, every woman is different and what might work for one could be a major turn off for another. But there are a few science-backed, expert-approved, tried and tested tips for how to make a girl orgasm. Here's everything you need to know about the female orgasm. Before we get to how to make a woman orgasm, let's explain what a female orgasm is actually like. Experts generally agree that an orgasm goes down in four stages: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution.